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    • About Healing Energy >
      • The True Nature of Healing
      • Healing is a Choice
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    • Jennifer's Written Works >
      • Day's of Appreciation >
        • Love Comes Walkin In
        • Connection
        • At A Snail's Pace
      • Poems >
        • New Poems >
          • Imagine
          • The Morning Quiet
          • Why I Read Poetry
          • On Art
          • Our Song
          • Everything
          • Escape
          • Smiling Eyes
          • Mercy
        • Poems from Passion >
          • Part I >
            • When the Heart Beats
            • Let Me View Life- The Way the Heart Feels..
            • Little Girl
            • The Light
            • When I Called Her Name
            • Betwixt the Stars
            • When Cherry Blossom's Bloom
            • The Smell of Rain
          • Part II >
            • Kissing Contusion
            • Inside Each Other's Kiss
            • Butterflies Break-
            • She Was Mad-
            • Fire and Ice
            • The Trace of Night
          • Part III >
            • The Moment Before Janet Arrived
            • She Didn't Know
            • I Pretend
            • Collapsed Star
            • My Heart Bleeds...
            • Love Divided
            • In Loving Memory
            • You Never Said Goodbye...
            • Life Teaches in Mysterious Ways
            • I Learned I was Valuable
            • I Choose to Burn
            • Good Love Doesn't Hurt
          • Part IV >
            • Lady Compassion Waits
            • Daring Hearts
            • The Tides
            • She Fell
            • Your Presence
            • The Seeker
      • Short Stories >
        • Cumberland Canteen
        • The Moon Connection
        • The Lady and the Sea
        • Olly and Mildred
        • Super FLy!
        • 1713 Maplewood Drive
        • Divine Grace
      • Inner Beauty Quotes >
        • Love Series >
          • Self-Love
          • The Wind
          • The Heart
          • Connected Kisses
          • Beauty
          • Sweetness
          • Love Story
          • Emotion
          • Keep Close to your Heart
          • I Love to Feel
          • Saxophone Song
          • When the Lover Speaks
          • Shed My Flesh
          • Tongue Tied
        • Healing Series >
          • The Process of Healing
          • True Nature of a Healer
          • Healing
          • In Order to Heal
          • Heal Yourself First
          • No Shame in Pain
          • Break Me
          • Your Needs Come First
          • Heal the Self - Heal the World
        • Compassion Series >
          • Surrender
          • Love Yourself
          • Be Kind with Yourself
          • To Deeply Nurture Yourself
          • Feel What You Feel
          • Self-compassion is Courageous
          • To Surrender is to Accept
        • Creative Series >
          • Go with the Flow
          • Creativity is the Greatest Form of Conception-
          • A Writer
          • Good Poetry
        • Wisdom Series >
          • Wisdom is an Experience
          • Spiritual Connection
          • Grow Your Garden
          • Life Happens
          • Creative Consciousness
          • Seek the Sensations Inside First
          • Allowing
          • Palms to Prayer-
          • Teach Other's Well
          • Sometimes... Life Steps In
          • Baby Steps
          • If You Don't Let Go and Grow-
          • It's Okay to Walk Away..
          • In Being One-
          • Opportunities
          • It's interesting...
        • Meditation Series >
          • Be the Example
          • Our Bodies Are Fluid-
          • Meditation is not just closing the eyes-
          • To Be Steady in Chaos
          • Silence
          • Awareness
          • Seeds of Light
        • Inner Strength Series >
          • Letting Go
          • Leave Your Mark
          • Trials
          • Those Who Strike-
          • Change Happens
          • Make Waves
          • Knowing Yourself
          • Courage 1
          • Courage 2
          • Strength
          • Transformation Doesn't Have to Hurt...
          • Embrace the Trials
          • Be Your Own Hero
          • Personal Power
          • Inspiration
          • Structure
      • Meditation Musings >
        • 1st Chakra >
          • Root Invocation
          • Root Chakra
          • Your Roots
          • Trust
          • Foundation
        • 2nd Chakra >
          • 2nd Chakra Invocation
          • Sacral Shaped Chakra
          • The Womb
          • Rebirth
          • Comfort
          • Care for the Soul
          • Sweetness
          • Vulnerability
          • Allowing 1
          • Allowing 2
          • Passion and Purpose
          • What Makes You a Powerful Experince
        • 3rd Chakra >
          • Stand in Your Power
          • Be Light
          • JoY!
        • 4th Chakra >
          • Heart Innvocation
          • Unstruck
          • 3 Fold Flame of Forgiveness
          • When the Heart Beats
          • The Power of Vulnerability
          • Heart Vision
          • Heartfelt Motion
        • 5th Chakra >
          • Truth
          • Listen
          • Silence
        • 6th Chakra >
          • Awareness
          • Shedding to Shift
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          • I AM
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        • SHAME: The Teacher Within
        • ABANDONMENT
        • BOUNDARIES
        • MINDFULNESS
      • Emotional Wellness Concepts >
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          • The Spirit of Divine Alignment
          • Wisdom is an Experience
          • GRACE
          • Acceptance
          • The Gifts of Forgiveness
          • Consistency
          • Defense Mechanisms
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          • Vulnerability is the True Strength
          • You Deserve a Day Off
          • Self-Love: A Love Language I
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          • Emotional Purging: The Peak Point of Healing
          • Emotional Purge Peaks & Points
          • 8 STEPS TO FLOURISH
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          • Inner Value
          • Defining Your Values
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EMOTIONAL CONCEPTS & TOOLS

SELF-EFFICACY
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People will give up their power​because they think they don’t have any-

Sometimes, while moving toward a goal, feelings of being stuck or sudden confusion and stress may arise. Feelings of disappointment can also surface, perhaps a measurement of efforts or overwhelming thoughts of taking two steps forward and 100 steps back. Even experiences of talking the self into believing current tasks are much harder than they actually are, tend to rear their distorted heads.

We often attribute these kind of emotional experiences as a lack of confidence or a misguided use of personal power. Although, your sense of confidence can be affected during the process, it is a sense of low self-efficacy that places fault, on low or a lack of ability. In this framework, you can lose sight of your personal potential, undermine your inherent strengths and place your gifts on the back burner.

WHAT IS THE MEANING OF SELF-EFFICACY?

Self-efficacy is not self-image, self-worth, or any other similar construct. It is the belief you have ability to meet the challenges ahead and to complete a task successfully. The underlying measurement is based on the strength of your individual faith in your own abilities, capabilities, and capacity to achieve what you set out to do in a successful way. It is important to note the distinction between ability and capability here.
Having Ability to do something means: You are able to carry out the task.

Having Capability to do something means: You have the potential but may not have mastered the skill yet.
When you have a strong sense of self-efficacy, you trust in yourself, your abilities, skills, knowledge and wisdom. This gives you that extra layer of confidence in knowing that what you put forth, will be successful.

​You can build your level of self-efficacy by stacking your success, surrounding yourself with people who believe you can succeed and working through your own psychological/emotional charges in a loving way.

4 WAYS TO BE SELF-SUSTAINING

1. Keep track of activities in-line with your goal:
List 3 and how they make you feel.

2. Integrate positive self-talk:
Give yourself compliments. Remind yourself what motivates you and what makes you happy. Efficacy starts when you start questioning yourself and listen to the answers.

3. Look back at achievements:
Focus more on what you've gained and recall achievements. Remember your past successes and say it out loud so you can hear yourself. Make a list of all past accomplishments and successes. Come back to that list every time your self-trust trembles. Stay on track, no matter the size of achievements, keeping a reminder handy prevents losing perspective or undermining your capabilities.

4. Self-awareness:
You must put time and effort into knowing yourself well. This is the process of self-mastery and when you master the self, you are 100% self-efficient.

Love,
Jennifer
Emotional Wellness Coaching
Emotional Tools: Self-Efficacy: 4 ways to be Self-Sustaining, 2/17/2021

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